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𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 11 days ago

Xenogenders are Rule

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Xenogenders are Rule

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𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 11 days ago
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    11 days ago

    is anyone still arguing about it? I thought this stayed in 201X together with bi-vs-pan debate

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      11 days ago

      personally I have genuinely no idea what a xenogender is, but my personal opinion is

      E/T + valid + did ask + ratiowiki + win + queer + slay etc.

      for sexual and romance same, so long as it’s between consenting ppl of mature enough age, who cares

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        From what I experienced that’s the consensus in genderqueer circles, I haven’t seen anyone seriously arguing otherwise in awhile.

        Stuff like xenogenders or plurals I’m not really in the know but hey sounds interesting, sign me to your newsletter.

        Also as catboy adjacent, how could I begrudge someone vibing as a cat.

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      I see you haven’t been around for the dragonfucker controversy on blahaj.

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        10 days ago

        I have not, and am unsure if I’m ready for the burden of knowledge

      • 𝕲𝖑𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍🔻𝕯𝖃 (he/him)@lemmy.world
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        7 days ago

        What happened to that asshole anyway? I miss him.

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          IIRC they (dragon?) have been banned for abusive comments or messages, but don’t quote me on that (I might not, in fact, remember correctly).

          • 𝕲𝖑𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍🔻𝕯𝖃 (he/him)@lemmy.world
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            7 days ago

            That makes sense

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