Indigenous Canadian from northern Ontario. Believe in equality, Indigenous rights, minority rights, LGBTQ+, women’s rights and do not support war of any kind.

  • 5 Posts
  • 810 Comments
Joined 2 years ago
cake
Cake day: June 13th, 2023

help-circle

  • I remember reading about something along those lines a few years ago.

    When we were kids running around with our childhood friends every summer, we thought it would never end, that we would be and stay friends forever.

    Then one day, we run home, wave goodbye and say ‘see you later!’ … and without us knowing, or being aware of it, that was the last time we saw our childhood friend.

    We might have lived next to one another, or went to the same high school later on or even went to the same college … we never saw our friend again.

    We never knew and we were never aware of when we said goodbye or saw our friend for the last time.

    I think about my old childhood friends … I’m middle aged now … some of those friends died young, some got married and had a bunch of kids … a few had hard lives and became addicts … one of them is a vegetable after having suffered an overdose … and many of them just went on and had small families and did OK.





  • It’s a matter of numbers and community.

    If you want to be a jerk, people will ignore you. If there are ten other people in the room, you can only be a jerk ten times before everyone in the room starts to ignore you.

    That’s the Fediverse, it’s a small community and word gets around fast with people who see and notice a bad character and start blocking them, their posts, their comments and their activity.

    That’s the thing about numbers … if you are a small group, word gets around quickly who the jerk is … if you are a big community, there are more systems in place to deal with jerks

    So the only way for jerks to survive … is to build a community of jerks for themselves … and surprisingly enough, those communities don’t last very long.





  • Every Canadian, especially those with family that have been here for generations, more than likely has a tiny bit of Indigenous blood in them … it’s just a matter of numbers and circumstance. How do you expect your hundreds of ancestors to now mix with the local people if they’ve been here for 200-300 years?

    Conversely, I always say I’m 100% Indigenous because both my parents were born in the wilderness of northern Ontario and as far as we’ve known, all their families go back thousands of years of Ojibway Indigenous blood … but there is still the possibility that there may have been one or two Europeans somewhere along those lines. We have one great grandfather who was called ‘wapi-George’ … basically ‘white George’ who apparently had very fair skin but his father was undetermined or never known. You can only guess what happened there … either it was passionate ill fated love, or just a child born from rape.

    As far as the racism goes … I keep telling my friends that nothing has really changed. The only thing that is in the process of changing is the fact that white Europeans are in the last stages of holding onto their privileged status and that in the next few generations, they won’t be as important as they used to be … and that thought just absolutely terrifies them. They are so wound up about losing control that they can’t see that it absolutely doesn’t matter to everyone else … and that at the end, once they lose all importance, they won’t be any more important than anyone else.