Zuzak [fae/faer, she/her]

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Cake day: July 29th, 2020

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  • The trouble is consciously rejecting an idea you were raised with doesn’t immediately rid you of the various biases that idea instilled in you. And nobody is more susceptible to bias than people who don’t think they have any, which describes a lot of people in that sphere. This is where the absurd phrase “culturally Christian” comes from, because they realize the beliefs they were raised with are bullshit, but then they notice that that belief system has all the prejudices that they have (because they were raised with it), so rather than confronting those biases and doing self-crit (emotional self-awareness and humility ew ew gross) they instead just come up with some bizarre twisted rationalization (using FACTS and LOGIC) and accept that. The brain is very good at rationalizations like that and can invent all sorts of convoluted lines of logic if it means fitting in with one’s tribe.



  • Zuzak [fae/faer, she/her]@hexbear.nettoMemes@lemmy.mlit's that time of year
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    1 year ago

    Food has a cultural component tied to its manufacture and identification. And IPAs are food that probably shouldn’t exist and which only does as a byproduct of market capitalism. They’re the Lacanian ‘object a’ - an empty, manufactured falseness. We don’t desire the thing itself, but the thing whose absence it symbolizes. What you’re really consuming when you drink an IPA is its innate mechanical predictability.

    (Thanks to the thread last week arguing about pumpkin spice lattes for giving me a new copypasta to use about anything I personally dislike.)






  • Have you considered the possibility that some people like the taste of pumpkin spice lattes? Or do you just get to dismiss everything you personally dislike as “The Lacanian ‘object a?’” You could substitute literally any food or drink for PSLs in what you said, it’s completely meaningless.

    It’s just empty words and phrases for you to feel superior to others based on what treats you enjoy or don’t enjoy.



  • Zuzak [fae/faer, she/her]@hexbear.nettoMemes@lemmy.mlCan we please
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    1 year ago

    There’s probably a way to link literally any given thing to white supremacy and cis heteronormativity provided you don’t care how tenuous the connection is. Hating mainstream stuff when you don’t have an actual reason is just a way to make yourself feel superior. Hell, I could probably draw a more compelling connection from hating basic stuff to white supremacy and cis heteronormativity than you could for the reverse.

    The infamous Drones are Queer paper is probably a good example of how it’s possible to draw a connection between virtually any two things if you try hard enough. Or just tell Chat GPT to write an explanation on how X and Y are linked for any two things.






  • Zuzak [fae/faer, she/her]@hexbear.nettoMemes@lemmy.mlCan we please
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    1 year ago

    downbear

    I don’t think anybody’s being pressured into drinking pumpkin spice lattes or eating avocado toast lmao. D&D is a fun and good creative, sociable activity and more people getting into it is good, actually.

    Any popular thing is going to have hype around it, that doesn’t mean that it’s inherently bad. You’re free to dislike popular stuff but saying it’s bad just because it’s popular is a bad take.