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  • Ehhh some of this is great advice about sales tactics, but you should definitely get a contractor to come out and look over the place again.

    Reason being is if there is something that was missed in your initial inspection that another contractor found, you can go back to the realtor and demand them to be fixed. Especially for new builds.

    However you only have a small window for this, because if you wait too long the realtor and or contractors can say it was you and it’s not their responsibility.

    Also you should always get multiple bids from several contractors. If someone is going to do the job at a really low price, that means that contractor will cut corners, and do more harm than good. If someone is giving you an astronomical price that is completely unreasonable that means the contractor doesn’t want the job.

    There is also this other “tactic” that construction companies know very well. That is if the company is trying to give you a deal, you as a customer are going to nitpick every little thing. Flip side, if they mark it up the customer will always believe it’s the best job that was ever done.

    Source: my step father owned a large legit construction company, that I worked for, and my bio father owned a small shady construction company, that I also worked for.




  • Whenever I see something like this I feel I must defend my friend who’s a cop.

    Before being a cop he was a lifeguard at a beach and my bassist.

    Baywatch may tell you differently, but being a lifeguard is a seasonal job, and not a career. The next level of being a lifeguard is becoming a cop, so he did, and he has only beaten one black man so far.













  • I’ll help ya out since I felt the same way and spent too much time on something I don’t really care about, though I do care for the person who was impacted.

    They are a tech YouTube channel that tests components for computers and the like.

    Basically, a former female employee (can’t remember her name) who was the social media manager, made a post of her tenure there, and it was horrible. Sexual harassment, belittled, ridiculous standards for work. At one point she felt she needed to gash herself and go to the ER, just so she can take a day off because she was ridiculed for taking a sick day previously. There is whole shit ton more. I’d link the post but sorry I’m a little lazy rn.

    The guy who is “de-friending” this Linus guy, is another YouTuber who does the same thing.

    This was a hyper TL;DR, and I’m missing other things, but that’s pretty much the jist of it.


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    I know this is an unpopular opinion, but that’s because a good amount of the time it’s true…

    Relationships are a lot of work, but shouldn’t be hard. If your relationship is getting so difficult that you feel the need to post your issues on the Internet to get advice from strangers, your relationship is more or less done and haven’t really noticed it yet.

    If it’s a one off issue that you need some outside help to see another perspective, than breaking up is probably not the solution; however, if it’s habitual then yeah breaking up is probably for the best.

    We tend to have loss aversion and get trapped in the sunken cost fallacy with relationships and can’t see that it needs to end.

    That said, giving advice for a bad relationship is like seeing a person who has an addiction problem. That person needs to realize what it is, and no amount of advice can help.