it’s hard to know the extent to which the comment represents the marriage. otoh, if one were to read their comment and leave thinking “sounds like a normal, healthy marriage to me”, that imo would be a premium red flag on the reader.

the implementations of communism that have existed are:

• mostly not super communist. a one-party dicatatorship owning all the property and being like “well but we, the party, are the people so… it’s communist!” is. not. communism.

• nowhere near to an exhaustive set of ways to do communism