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  • Droggelbecher@lemmy.worldtoMemes@lemmy.mlTrying to quit Reddit
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    3 days ago

    This to me reads that you have a serious self control issue. If you need to use therapy to limit your gambling, you’ve fucked up. Learn and practice some self control. You don’t need therapy, you don’t need to stop gambling or cut off ties with your dealer, just stop doing it. This is like needing to have your parents tell you to do your homework or something. You are in control of your life. You will feel much more empowered if you do it yourself.




  • Droggelbecher@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldChoices
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    16 days ago

    To add to this: pretty much nobody thinks skinny people are attracted. It’s a constructed ideal that many want to achieve, but few want to see in a potential partner.

    Source: used to be skinny and bullied for it

    Btw it also feels like shit. You’re tired all the time, you’re cold all the time, when you sit on something solid, like wood, it hurts because there’s no fat between your pelvis and the chair, and that’ll give you back pain.

    Just thought this was relevant because ‘it’s unhealthy’ is sometimes too abstract for people to care