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  • ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.netto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule
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    5 days ago

    There was a foreign exchange girl from France. She was brutal. She said whatever was on her mind. She wouldn’t even blink as she said in broken English that you werent worth the air you are breathing.

    So yeah, this story checks out.

    God I wanted her to step on me.

    Wait what?


















  • I also had a rule that I would live with them for at least 1 year before committing to a proposal. I had to know in advance that I could live with this person, at their best AND worst every single day, before I would even consider marriage.

    Blows me away people get married before living with them. I never experienced that in reality, but the dating shows drive me crazy.

    My wife and I moved in during the dating stages, and we drove each other crazy. After a few years, we chilled out and learned better habits from each other, then after a long time… We popped the question.




  • Same!

    One of my fears dating was that id run out of social energy and she’d realize i was really boring. A few years in our relationship, I told her. And she said she thought SHE was boring me, because she never had anything to really say.

    Now it’s been more than a decade and there’s no social battery being drained with her, and vice versa. We charge each other up!



  • ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.netto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneGirlfriend rule
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    2 months ago

    I definitely think there’s a degree of maturity where a person separates potential sex partners and potential friends. Or Maybe it’s just me and I assume everyone wants to horndog with everyone. Which is okay, just keep it in your pants.

    I’ve been married for 15 years now and I usually deflect any forms of attraction (men and women). I’ve had a few times where they confess, and I’ve always just kind of shrugged and let them know I’m not the person they built up in their heads. if they get creepy, quietly move on. Most don’t and we’re lifelong friends.

    Again, maturity plays a huge part. And if they’re not mature enough to see you as a person, whoever you are… That’s on them. It may feel lonely on your part, but honestly, the drama with people who have obsessive crushing is way honestly more annoying.


  • I was at a party and talked about how Burger King has veggie patties.

    And this rando party goer interrupts to talk about how good meat is and can’t imagine being submissive to vegetarians.

    And I loudly said that it’s what the doctor recommended to help with my cancer and the dude panicked and ran away.

    It wasn’t true but fuck that guy traumatize them back.