• PugJesus@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    My mother socialized me too damn well, people IRL think I’m friendly and kind when in reality I hate every last one of those fucks from behind my eyes.

    • Evkob (they/them)@lemmy.ca
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      1 day ago

      I relate really hard to this comment. My mother, for all her faults, truly seems to believe the best in people, which I do find admirable. Shortly before retirement, she worked a few retail jobs, where she thrived and loved getting the grumpy clients. She said trying to make them smile was always her favourite mini-game at work.

      As much as I hate most people, that mentality has translated into my work ethic as a customer service employee. You never know what someone is going through, and unless you actively make the staff feel unsafe I will try my best to make your day a bit nicer.